Saying It Once

14 min

Best for: over-explaining and softening what you need

Many of us soften a request until the need underneath disappears, stacking on justifications, a quick apology, and a polite door left open behind us. This CBT-based session works with the gap between the clear thought and the over-explained sentence that comes out of the mouth. You'll practise locating the plain need, dropping the staircase of justification, and saying it once without inflating or defending it. A short, focused rehearsal in direct, unhedged communication.

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Eleanor Vance
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Eleanor Vance
Warm, low, unhurried

Warm and unhurried, with a low steady ease, the slow exhale at the end of a long day.

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About this session

Saying It Once is a guided audio session from Salūs, part of the CBT collection, narrated by Eleanor Vance.

Salūs is an ad-free sleep and meditation app for iOS and Android, hundreds of guided sessions, long bedtime stories for adults and 325 free sleep sounds. Hear the full session with a 7-day free trial. Every session is signed off by our BSc (Hons) & MSc Psychology team.